My partner and I work for the same company in Germany. Both have roughly the same experience and do similar work. He is German — I am not, I have moved to the country to be with him. He has just received a rise in his salary and now earns 20 per cent more than I do. Am I right to expect to share our expenses pro rata? I would be happy with the 20 per cent in our biggest expense — rent, and drop it for everything else (food, travel, etc). What do you think? Manager, female, 33
我和我的伴侣都在德国的一家公司工作。我们俩有着差不多一样的工作经验,也做着相似的工作。他是德国人——我不是,我为了和他在一起才来到这个国家定居。他刚刚加了薪,现在他赚的比我多20%。我希望按收入比例来分摊我们的花销,这样合适吗?我会很高兴能把这20%花在我们最大的花销——房租上,还有其他一切(食物,旅行,等等)。你怎么看?