I serve as an unremunerated non-executive on the board of an NGO and, returning from a recent project visit, had an erotic adventure with an attractive younger project manager. He does not report to the board so there are no legal obstacles to an affair. As we both have families, we intend to be discreet. Inconveniently, however, the NGO’s director just quit and my intended lover plans to apply for the job. For the gender balance, the board wants me on the selection panel. Are there alternatives to not being on the panel or not pursuing the affair?
我是一家非政府组织中不领取报酬的非执行董事，最近刚考察完一个项目回来。我与一位颇有魅力的年轻项目经理有了“性爱冒险”。他不用向董事会报告，因此这种关系不存在任何法律障碍。由于我们两人都已成家，所以我们打算谨慎行事。然而不凑巧的是，这家非政府组织的董事刚刚离职，我的这位准情人打算申请该职位。出于性别比例方面的考虑，董事会想要我进入选拔委员会。除了不进入选拔委员会或不发展婚外情以外，我还有其它办法吗？