专栏露西

My wife and I work hard, but our kids don’t want to know
如何培养青春期子女?


我和妻子都是律师,我们努力工作,日子过得不错。可有一天,17岁的儿子说他绝不会像我俩那样浪费生命。我们哪里做错了?——49岁的律师

My wife and I are both lawyers and hard-working. We have a good standard of living, send our two children to expensive, academic-focused schools and have nice holidays. Both are bright, but neither seems at all motivated to do well. I always assumed that our working habits would set them a good example, but the reverse seems to have been the case. My 17-year-old son told me the other day that he did not want to waste his life as we have. I asked what he was planning to live on and he shrugged. What have we done wrong?

我和妻子都是律师,工作勤勤恳恳。家里的生活水平不错,两个孩子都送到了学费高、师资强的学校读书,全家也会去一些不错的地方度假。两个孩子都很聪明,但好像没有什么东西能激励他们表现得出类拔萃。我总是以为,我们两口子的工作习惯会给孩子们树立榜样,可结果似乎事与愿违。前几天,17岁的儿子告诉我,他可不想像我们那样浪费生命。当我问他打算以何种职业谋生时,他只是耸了耸肩。我们什么地方做错了呢?

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露西•凯拉韦

露西•凯拉韦(Lucy Kellaway)是英国《金融时报》的管理专栏作家。在过去十年的时间里,她用幽默的语言调侃各种职场现象,并为读者出谋划策。她的专栏每周一出版在英国《金融时报》。露西在2006年获得英国出版业奖的“年度专栏作家”奖项。

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